I have written several articles on books available for those new to BDSM and have given you some books you should read whether you are a top or a bottom. The books we will be discussing in this article are the books just for the submissive. I hope that these books will mean as much ...
Kink Aware Professionals is an organization that is run by the NCSF (National Coalition for Sexual Freedom) and is available for psychologists, psychiatrists, doctors and lawyers to list their services as friendly towards people in the swinger, BDSM and poly scenes. Kink Aware Professionals now includes listings from all over the world even though it ...
The relationship between a submissive and dominant or a Master and slave is like all other relationships. Any relationship can fail and in this case it could do so because of a variety of reasons. The couple could have drifted apart or either one of the partners could have met and fallen in love with ...
Ideas for a new playroom could be very expansive or you could do something simple and affordable at first. You could convert your garage into a playroom if you do not live in an attached home or you can turn the basement into a den of iniquity. The idea is to make it look like ...
This article will discuss subspace. Yes, newbie sub, there is such a thing as subspace and no; you are not deficient because you have never experienced it. Some newbies are frightened of this state of mind as well, because it truly signals complete handover of control. It is not to be feared and I will ...
I have already written a few articles on training and on specific training tools, discussing them in more depth. I want to make it easy for a new dominant to see all the training tools at his or her disposal at a glance. I will give short descriptions and why these tools are used so ...
Just like many aspects of “Bondage and Discipline, Domination and Submission, Sadism and Masochism,” the collar is very controversial in its meaning and need. In many but not all dominant and submissive relationships, there is a collar or necklace that symbolizes a submissive belonging to her master or dominant. The meaning and background of the ...
There have been many articles about this subject and the views aren’t always the same. BDSM has been around for quite some time and some definitions have been developed to describe someone’s role and point of view. It helps to define roles, as it helps people who are looking for a partner to distinguish exactly ...
Many individuals not in the BDSM lifestyle believe that once they see how a Dominant and submissive couple behave that the submissive, whether male or female, is being cruelly treated. I wanted to explain the line between and the safety measures that are taken by true couples living in this lifestyle. First of all, I ...
Since I had written quite a few articles on the books available for people in the BDSM lifestyle, I kept on thinking whether I should include fiction as well, since fiction is such a personal thing. There is such a subjective feel about this and I really do not want to say that the books ...
