To some people, flirting comes naturally. To others, well we need a little help. Once you know what to do, flirting is very easy and anyone can do it. This article will show both men and women simple things that they can do to flirt.
Top 5 Tips For Women
1 Compliment him. Make sure your compliments are true though, making up compliments just so you can talk to him is the wrong thing to do. Compliment him on the things that you really do like about him and he will know that you are sincere.
2 Make eye contact.
Your eyes are the most effective tool that you have for flirting. You can make a man’s heart skip a beat by giving him a look, be it playful, lusty, or a lingering stare.
Here’s how. Give him a 2 or 3 second stare, then slowly look away. Slow is very important here. Smile as you start to turn you head away. He will get your message.
3 Flip or twirl your hair.
If you want to get a mans attention, flip your hair casually, twist it and then untwist it, tuck your hair behind your ear, or run your hand through it.
4 Give him a soft giggle and smile. According to all of my male buds, a laugh and a smile are the sexiest thing that a woman can wear. Try perfecting your smile and laugh so they are seductive and sweet, if you do this, you will have amazing results. Practice a fake smile and laugh also, this can help you through those awkward moments.
5 Touch him! You can casually tap him on the leg or arm while laughing, or lean your head onto his shoulder if you are tired, you can also hold his hand if you are scared or nervous. This will give him a sense of manliness, and you get to touch him.
Top 5 Tips For Men
1 Make eye contact. You will show a woman that you are interested by looking in her eyes. Once you meet her gaze, keep your stare, this shows confidence. If she looks away and smiles, she is into you, if on the other hand she looks away with no smile, she is either shy or just not into you.
2 Smile at her. This is usually overlooked, but nothing tells a woman that you are happy, confident and interested in her like a smile. If your teeth are not so great, get them fixed. It lowers your chances of getting a great woman, is bad for your health and your appearance.
3 Use open body language. Let’s face it, men walk around with their arms crossed, legs close to each other and have expressions that could scare a woman. So, open up. Don’t cross your arms, lean back in your chair with your legs open and relaxed. Try your best to have a warm and inviting expression on your face, even though we know you are tough men.
4 Lean in when she is talking to you. Show that you are in control, and that you are interested in what she is saying. If you lean back, that tells a woman that you are unconfident and not interested in what she has to say.
5 Touch her! Don’t grab her and try to lay one on her, be gentle, a brush on her arm, or a light massage, you can even take her hand when leading her somewhere. When you make a physical connection, you signal that you are confident in yourself and that you are interested in the woman.
If you use these simple tips, you will be flirting in no time. Just like everything else, flirting takes practice, so get out there and get some practice in.
sources:
http://dating-advice.suite101.com/article.cfm/how_to_flirt_without_looking_like_a_flirt
How to flirt without looking like a flirt.
Marcy Paulson
