The fact that males are superior to females cannot be disputed as we have direct evidence from genetic research and extensive studies of the human mind. For as long as there has been written history, male dominance has been universal among societies with very few exceptions. The explanation for this is found in the difference in the hormonal systems of the two sexes, starting at the fetal stage.
Simon Baron-Cohen, a Cambridge University professor of psychology and psychiatry, has said that “the female brain is predominantly hard-wired for empathy, while the male brain is predominantly hard-wired for understanding and building systems.” Our roles in society are set for us at the fetal stage and trying to fight nature only causes stress and complications for ourselves and those around us.
An example of fighting inherent nature is feminism. It’s clear that feminists have overstepped their boundaries on several dimensions. First, they strive to assert gender equality in all things, even where the genders are obviously and innately different. Second, feminists strive to extend this gender equality from the social/political venue into the personal and private venue. Third, they have caused a hysterical response that exaggerates the real threats that women sometimes do face from men with regard to sexual harassment and violence. Aside from extreme cases, women have nothing to gain by challenging or opposing the dominant role of males in society.
Women, for the most part, are now afraid to voice their appreciation for dominant men, for fear of criticism by those who would call them politically incorrect. In many modern relationships, too many couples are now locked in a continual struggle for power. This struggle often leaves the couple disconnected, unhappy and unfulfilled with the modern relationship. I don’t suggest we return to the norms of the Victorian era, but I do believe that, in the feminist quest for equality between the sexes, we have lost something special.
One way that any woman can make a difference is by expressing her respect and appreciation for strong, heroic, masculine men. She can show her pride for her own desire for a manly, dominant man. Women are often shy about this, not only because of the feminist movement, but also because of innate feminine modesty. There is something ironic about being assertive when talking about one’s own sexual submissiveness. This is not something that needs to be discussed in public, but since the feminist movement has brought it to the forefront, the issue needs to be responded to by women rather than men. Feminists are quick to demonize men for wanting to dominate women. Women themselves need to feel comfortable about expressing their desire for a dominant man. It’s a natural feeling for most women to have and shouldn’t be repressed in order to keep in step with the feminist movement.
For a woman to want to assume the dominant role in society or in her private life serves no purpose. Women have nothing to gain by challenging the dominant role of men but have much to lose. Males are born to be the leaders and the heads of household. Most women are not physically or psychologically equipped for this role and should not attempt to step out of their biological place. Women should understand that true male dominance is something inherently good and for the benefit of women.
A dominant male is a leader, is kind and compassionate, fair and honest. A truly dominant man doesn’t take his woman for granted and knows the difference between loving, intimate discipline and being cruel and hurtful. The feminist movement has twisted the qualities of the dominant male for their own purposes. They have confused women by implying that a dominant man is a controlling and repressive man. The difference between a truly dominant man and a controlling one is that the dominant man needs and wants the consent and submission of the woman, whereas the controlling man is primarily concerned about what he gets out of the relationship.
Those feminists who have moved to the extreme end of female dominance engage in practices that are the polar opposite of male dominance. They are not based on love for their male partner and are not for his benefit or the benefit of their relationship. These women appear to be angry man-haters and are probably frustrated with their roles in society and their sex lives. The cruelty and pain, both physical and psychological, that these dominant females inflict on men is shocking and unacceptable.
If women would go back in their thoughts to earlier times before the feminist movement, they would remember the consensual male-dominated relationships where the man’s power is real and for the purpose of creating a deeply connected relationship and white-hot sexual connection. How each man expresses his dominance is an individual matter, but it is for the benefit of the relationship rather than to be self-serving. The dominant male protects and cherishes his female partner and that woman responds positively to her man’s guidance. The woman defers to her male partner, respecting him and accepting and supporting his word as final in any decisions he makes. The move away from these traditional roles has caused rifts in society and confusion in the minds of children as they grow to adulthood and question their own roles in society.
In conclusion, the roles of men and women are set from the moment the hormones develop in the fetus. For society to operate at an optimal level and for personal relationships to thrive, men and women must accept and keep to their pre-determined biological roles. The dominant male exists to care for his woman and to lead in society and at home. Women who accept this fact will be happy, fulfilled and complete, and will contribute to the happiness of their family and society as a whole.
