First of all, so that I don’t waste anyone’s time in reading this, I wanted to make sure that you as readers are aware that these are tips to those couples who are making love for the first time.
This is probably the most anticipated night since you have fallen in love. You have dreamed of making love to your fiancé, but now you can make that fantasy a reality, but how? Here are a few ways that you can make this the most magical night of your life and keep it that way for years to come.
Your sweetheart probably hasn’t seen you completely undressed, so the first thing that is recommended is to keep some sort of light on. Dim lights and even candles are extremely romantic. Dim lights are recommended because you want to see what you are about to feel and that is the love that you have been waiting for. You want to be able to enjoy this evening and remember not only how it feels but all the love that you can see.
The thing is to not put too much thought into it. Doing this can probably ruin the special moment because you have drilled it to somehow cause what you have thought of to happen. Go with the flow and take your time to get to know your new spouse by following body language. However, set the mood for love, of course. Just don’t overdo it, I recommend.
This special night should be simple and with much focus. I know you are excited about finally making love, but the point of it all is to take your time to get to know eachother’s body, even on the outside.
Lots of kissing, laughing and maybe even some nice slow music and dancing together will set the mood. Without further delay here are some tips that you can use before you even step foot in your suite. Plan ahead guys, because the honeymoon is on you.
Most likely your honey got a pretty negligee at her bridal shower and has it in her suitcase. That is ok and don’t even mention it but you go to Victoria’s Secret and pick which one you want her to wear and keep it a surprise.
Sometimes it may be feasible to have the room set up before you two arrive, so check with the hotel staff ahead of time. Perhaps setting up a path of rose petals leading from the door to the bed is something that is fantasy fulfilling?
You may want to have music playing really softly, if you both are music lovers. If you choose to buy a negligee ahead of time, have it nicely placed on the bed or wrapped in a pretty box.
Ladies, there really aren’t any plans that you can take ahead of time as far as setting the room up. Traditionally, it is up to the groom to take care of the honeymoon. However, there are ways that you can plan on making this a special night that he will remember forever.
Perhaps talking about fantasies before this night would be a good idea. I mean you don’t know if he likes it wild and crazy or sweet and tame. Maybe a little of both? That is really why I recommend getting to know one another’s body language and the things that turn them on, especially on the first night.
Talk a lot and share intimate details. After all it is safe now to make love. Give each other a back massage. Have a glass of wine together. Lie naked and watch a good romance or drama and share fruits. Make it fun and exciting. Cherish this night and just do what comes naturally as you get to know each other intimately.
