Being the Sensually Seductive Woman, What does this mean?
Does it mean to be some long-haired, curvaceous, silhouette pop divalicious woman, with a size 2 waist and a size 14 hip/butt? No. Every woman has a gem of being a sensual and seductive woman that she dream to be no matter what physical figure, cultural backgrounds, level of income, or any other aspect that make each woman different.
Where does sensuality start from? Sensuality is you. We have been given 5 senses by nature, Sight, Smell, Sound, Taste, and of course touch. Start each day by feeling sensual, try things as simple taking in a breath of fresh air in the morning and taking in the sunshine, or watching the raindrops hit your windowsill or snowflakes in winter. Tasting frozen fruits such as grapes, or sweet bing cherries on the tip of the tongue. Listen to soft, sensual jazz. Touch soft petals of roses, and feeling of silk. Things such as these bring your sensual core to life. Feel your senses become alive!
Now enough talk you may say, besides feeling sensual within, I want to share my sensuality with my partner. I need ideas!
In my sector of each issue of this newsletter you will find some features that you will enjoy!
Creating a Sensual Scene – Do you have a special something coming up for the two of you? Check out the scene in each issue to set a map for your special night!
Sensual Zodiac – What turns your sign on and off in the sensual world.
Your Sensual Generation – Whether you are in your 20’s, 30’s, 40’s, 50’s, even 60’s we all can be sensual in our unique way.
Are You Ready for your first lesson? Are you excited? Let’s get started!
Sensual Scene I – Candlelit Indoor Picnic
Ingredients: Blanket, Bowl of Fruit, Sensual Scented Candles (ideas: Lavender, Spring Rain) , 2 Wine Glasses, 1 Bottle of Wine or Sparkling Grape juice, Sensual Music (ideas: Janet Jackson, Love Scene, Warmth, China Love, or Norah Jones, Come Away with Me, The Nearness of You or your favorites.) Baby Oil, Soft Sexy Lingerie for you to wear….
Setup: Try to see if you can send your partner out for a little while to allow enough time to set up its fun when it’s a surprise, but if you can’t, it’s still just as nice. Now you go get ready and start by picking out your lingerie that is appealing to you and your partner like a nice red or black teddy or a babydoll, whatever is comfortable. Try soaking in a milk bath, or sensual bubble bath scents like Plumeria, or Melon, or your tastes. Once you are done bathing, (and skin is smooth and areas groomed) baby lotion or baby oil is a simple but soft sensual scent that is not overbearing. If your hair is long or medium length, try a soft flowing slightly spiral curl look. If you have a short cut, spiked slightly or smooth down may do. Put on your lingerie slowly enjoy how it feels to your skin. Admire your physical sensuality. Never downplay your features, feel good about them. 50% of this sensual scene is you! So bring it! Now, find a nice size soft square blanket and spread it out in an open area such as a living room, (move the cocktail table and take it easy, you need your back for later!) place and light your candles around the area of the room or even around the edge of the blanket (be careful to monitor your movement with the candles around the edges of the blanket, don’t set a fire!) Have your fruit nicely arranged in a nice bowl try strawberries, grapes, small slices of watermelon, and your wine glasses and wine arranged in a corner of the blanket, have your music ready and playing in the CD player.
Action: Now your partner has arrived and the look on their face is one of astonishment because this is something new, and sensually creative. Tell your partner to come in and you tell them to undress or better yet you undress them. The both of you kneel down to the blanket and slowly I mean sensually and slowly feed each other the fruit, whether it’s with your fingers or with your mouth and enjoy the sound your lips make when softly kissing and breath slowly and deeply. Enjoy the sweetness of the fruit and wine, remember eye contact with your partner and let your senses take over. Once you are done with fruit play, lay your partner on their stomach, pour some baby oil on their back, and warm it in warm water if possible. (Sit the bottle of oil in a bowl of warm water) Massage slowly concentrating on mostly the tight areas; enjoy how the skin feels to your hands. Reciprocate by them returning the favor with a massage on your skin, indulge their touch on your skin, and relish it. If you want to be seductive, pour oil on your body, sensually rub it in as your partner watch, and enjoy their reaction. At this point your foreplay has begun and go with the flow! Enjoy!
For sensual shopping go to www.sensualpassionlove.com or www.sensuallyseductive.com
