Despite those loudly saying otherwise, abortion has a proven traumatic impact on women emotionally. Aborted children are not the only victims of abortion; the post-abortive woman suffers too. The Pro-Choice movement still denies a direct link between emotional suffering and abortion, yet many women are finally speaking up and proving otherwise.
One area many post-abortive women struggle with is low self-esteem. Due to constant self-recrimination, most post-abortive women fight feelings of unworthiness, shame and guilt.
The following is an adaptation from “A Course in Self-Esteem” by Channing Grigsby.
The Symptoms of Low Self-Esteem
1. Defend and Deny
2. Addicted/Compulsive Behavior
3. Feeling Disordered
4. Feels like an Orphan
5. Undifferentiated Dependency Needs/Boundary Problems
6. Disordered Thought
A post-abortive woman may not realize her low self-esteem is related to her abortion. Repression and transference are common coping mechanisms and may cause a woman to completely disengage from her abortion experience. She may fail to connect the dots between her abortion and her feelings of unworthiness.
The opposite can also be true. A woman who has experienced an abortion may be unable to overcome the guilt and shame associated with her experience. These feelings may be so strong that she feels completely unworthy and has trouble in many areas of her life. Depression and suicidal thoughts may be prevalent, she may have trouble maintaining relationships or holding a job.
For the post-abortive woman, feelings of unworthiness are a serious issue. Her negative feelings will impact all aspects of her life and have a direct impact on how she views herself and how she thinks other view her. It is necessary for her to look for the roots of her low self-esteem. Often the symptoms are just the “tip of the iceberg”. Searching deeper into past relationships, family dynamics, and circumstances is often needed to identify the core event or course of events that lead to the acceptance of unworthiness. Abortion may or may not be the only catalyst in her downward spiral.
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